Todays lesson is about being prepared before an encounter – any encounter, to ensure the best outcome.

Unfortunately, a lot of times we go into encounters with little thought about what it is we are after from that encounter and more importantly, what our energy levels are walking into that situation and how we manage our energy throughout the encounter.

The title of this post is a reminder to me, to be at a high energy level before entering a meeting and how I am going to manage my energy throughout that encounter.

Too often in the past I have gone into meetings with little pre-thought and also taking in baggage from previous situations or encounters which has led to me not getting the best outcome – hard to believe – not!

So it is about being mindful of the situations we find ourselves in and managing them to get the best possible outcomes in all situations. That may mean in a family situation managing your thoughts and feelings to not have situations get out of hand.

A lot of poor emotional decisions are at times when we are in family situations and age old triggers set off emotions that in other situations would not see the light of day.

If you are about getting the best life you can, then letting remote control living take over is definitely not the best option. We need to be the creators, not the catchers in our lives. Be in control by knowing what it is you want – in great specificity. Managing your energy. Knowing the situations you need to not be involved in and ditching those people that don’t allow you to be your best.

In the short term, especially in employment situations, the last idea is not easy to implement. Even so, you should be looking at ways to make a silk purse out of a sows ear. That is, get the best result from a poor situation.

Sending love and light to people that are negative and down is a great tool. Sometimes though this isn’t enough. This is when you need to go deeper to understand that the other person is also a child of source and that you need to not be negative towards them, but allow them to be themselves, we need to manage our energy, expectations and be understanding of their situation.

If you can do this and maintain your energy and entrain them to your energy levels you will end up with a far superior outcome for all involved.

Namaste