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A lot of the time people complain or comment on the things they don’t like about something, someplace or other people. However, when questioned what is it they want/desire, rather talking about what they don’t want, they can’t actually tell you.

Or they launch into some grandiose scheme of luxury cars, trips to amazing places and huge houses. However, when questioned on the specifics of what it is they are after, they then become hazy or vague, as if they are not really sure. And in most cases they aren’t.

We have all been told to dream big and that we can have anything we want (and we can), there is of course some things we need to do or be, before they will come to fruition. One of these is to have real clarity about your goals/desires.

The reason I use the term desires is that to want something means you come from a position of lack. (Definition:a lack or deficiency of something.), Whereas to desire something implies that there is feeling and emotion, eg Something that you really desire is…? For me that elicits some positive energy. And that is what is required to achieve your desires.

It is not enough to sit there and want something. It is about getting an energetic connection with the object of your desires. To feel really excited or passionate about what it is you are after. To sit in solitude and ponder on what it is you desire, seeing yourself already with that object/place and feeling what it would be like to have achieved that goal. The more specificity in your vision, the quicker you can manifest it.

Manifesting your desires is like everything else you have ever learned, it usually takes time and practice to achieve the great things. Depending on how old you are, there are years and years of thinking otherwise that have to be reversed. Kids on the other hand are wonderful manifesters, largely because they don’t have the fear of failure, or the doubts that come with being an adult to hold them back.

So back to my first question, Do you know where you are going? If you want to have certainty about where you are going and what you will achieve, have and be, then you need to spend some time clarifying in your mind, what it is you truly desire and then spend time getting energetically (emotionally – emotions are energy in motion) connected to those things, events or people.

Good luck and if you have any challenges, email me on dunny1@me.com.