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In western societies we have all been told that if we work hard we will end up getting what we want.

However, in most western countries, people work hard all their lives and do what they are told in terms of saving for their retirement. Some do really well, most do not. They actually end up in retirement having enough money to get by and not much more. So if they have done all that they have been told, why is this so.

I am not going to get into the economics or political side of these issues.

In reality, it is because we have fallen for the story that we need to work hard. So we work hard.

In reality we all know people who seem to get by with everything happening for them in a seemingly easy fashion. They don’t try hard, they don’t seem to work hard. It is frustrating sometimes watching them achieve what they do without seeming to put in the effort.

How is this so?

The secret is to get in tune with your energy field. This sounds a little airy fairy for some people, but stick with me.

We have discussed in earlier posts that everything is energy and we are all part of the same energy field. Things come together for you when you get in alignment with the energy of what it is you are after.

For many this sounds too esoteric and weird. So it is about believing that what you want is actually achievable. A lot of us have been told that you need to dream big and focus on what it is you want to get what you want. We also get told that you need to plan out what it is you need to do to get what you want.

In reality, part of this is correct. DREAM BIG, maybe BIGGER!

The next part is the bit that is not taught to most of us. You need to focus on what it is you want at the end and the trick to getting it is to actually feel what it would be like to be in that position. If it is being outside, can you feel the wind in your hair, the sun on your skin? How do you feel having achieved what you really wanted? Is there someone there that you want to share this with?

The more you get in the feeling of the moment and you believe it is real, the more likely it is you will get it.

DON’T WORRY ABOUT HOW IT WILL HAPPEN!

Focusing on the how, will take you off course.

There is a great rule I heard years ago. It is the 1/10/89 rule.

1% is the stuff you know – really know – like the colour of your hair.

10% is the stuff you don’t know; and

89% is the stuff you don’t know you don’t know!

So trying to work out how everything is going to work out is beyond the normal human.

Stepping back and focusing on what it is you want – and feeling what it would be like to have achieved it, (not resisting that it is possible) and doing what you feel is right for you to do, you will be where you want to BE!

BE – DO – HAVE!

Go out and allow what it is you want to happen, be the person you need to be to allow that to happen.

Go have fun!